Most places will take your snowboard to an edger, unless you ask for a hand tune, but generally, that is called a race tune.
If you have never seen an edger before, basically it is just a sanding belt with a spot to set the board on and control the degrees that are to be beveled. As long as the belt isnt brand new, it will usually just "polish" the metal edges. it doesnt take too much material off. You can sharpen your edges as much as you see fit. When they get dull, it is time to sharpen them (especially for freeriders). Your equiptment will probably be in retirement before you ever saw the day that you took off too much material and they would needed to get chucked.
For instance, the rental equiptment in my shop...some of it is around 10 years old. And the equiptment in my shop goes on getting full tune ups probably around 4+ times a season, and I have only seen a few times the boards had been tuned too many times and were falling apart.
Sharpening the edges will only throw off the feel of the board if you are used to dulled edges. Me for instance always have trouble with the new boards I get at the begining of a season because I am not used to the sharp edges, but as for you, who is accustomed to them, it throws off the feel to have dull edges.
For most beginners, they try to set them up with some board that has a huge beveled edge on it, to reduce the amount of catching. If you are to the level where you are connecting turns down the mountain, you will want the responciveness of the sharp edges