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prospect

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Posted on Dec 17, 2006

heres the deal: she sits in front of me in class and dont have the balls to talk to her. i cant stop thinking about her shes so beatiful. i feel like im going after something without a chance...

Czech_Yourself

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Posted on Dec 17, 2006

Just do it, what's the worst that can happen?

prospect

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Posted on Dec 17, 2006

the worst that can happen? um, sitting right by her for the rest of the year? i dont know... feeling like an idiot?

DARPH

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Posted on Dec 17, 2006

you ask if she wants to hang out or something, but her a coffee dude. That way if she declines it's no big deal!

Chelly

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Don't full out ask her out, that's always really awkward especially if you don't know her that well.
 
My advice (coming from a girl) is get to know her a little better first, if you don't already. Once you guys are friends, or pretty good friends, or at least friendly enough to not have any hanging-out adventures be awkward, go ahead and just ask if she wanted to go out and get some coffee sometime, or whatever. Go with a group if you want. If she says no thanks (and trust me, girls are usually more nice than not if you know them well enough) then it's no big deal.

Czech_Yourself

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Women should write a book on how their minds work.

mestephanieme

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

^None of us could write it cause we don't even really know.

Chelly's advice was good, I definitely agree with getting to know her better first. And when you do ask her out make it sound more casual at first, someone else already said this but I forget who because my memory is horrible, but it was good advice too. Keep the pressure levels low.



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Special_K

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Hey Steph, wanna go?

BrightEyes13
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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Here's some advice i got from a pal who's a whole year older than me. (these are HIS word's not mine!)
At a party all you need to do is smack her ass, then walk away.
A little later you do the same. Do this a couple more times. Then you go and turn her so she's facing you and you start making out and ask if she would like to get it on!

This shit actually worked for him though! Never tried it myself but if you want to............let me know how it goes.
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Hyde13

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Posted by mestephanieme
^None of us could write it cause we don't even really know.

Chelly's advice was good, I definitely agree with getting to know her better first. And when you do ask her out make it sound more casual at first, someone else already said this but I forget who because my memory is horrible, but it was good advice too. Keep the pressure levels low.



 
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pavalicious
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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Just say this:
 
I just wanted to know if you wanted to get some frozen yogurt, or maybe even a whole meal of food if thats agreeable.
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DARPH

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Posted by BrightEyes13
Here's some advice i got from a pal who's a whole year older than me. (these are HIS word's not mine!)
At a party all you need to do is smack her ass, then walk away.
A little later you do the same. Do this a couple more times. Then you go and turn her so she's facing you and you start making out and ask if she would like to get it on!

This shit actually worked for him though! Never tried it myself but if you want to............let me know how it goes.

BrightEyes13
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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Hey! I said i never did it myself! Dare you to try it!
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Dirty_Dan
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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Posted by Czech_Yourself
Women should write a book on how their minds work.

would you really read a book that long?


anyway. 

heres a few tips. 
always adress her by her name. people love hearing their name. it will make her feel like your attention is fully on her while you two are talking. 
compliment her. notice little things she does, like the way she wears her hair. complimenting her shoes is always a good idea, girls love shoes and they want people to notice them. 
make her laugh. if you can make her laugh the rest is easy. 
girls love to talk. so talk to her. find things that both of you have in common and talk about them. its not as hard as it seems. 
use corny lines like "whats cookin good lookin?" i always use that one. its a keeper.

when its time to ask her out. you dont have to make it a date. dates are harder then just simply hanging out. but dont ask her if she wants to hang out. make plans. like going out to eat. going to the movies. and ask her "hey ____, want to go to the movies friday" 

another suggestion, go with a group of friends. you will be less pressured to entertain her by yourself. and also, if you find its not going as well as you thought there will be other peoiple around so it isnt an awkward silence fest for the remainder of the date. im sure it will go great. after chilling with her a few times and you two know eachother pretty well, then you will be more comfortable with her and you can ask her out on a real date.

and finally, be confident in yourself. you are a great person. dont go changing. you dont need to be a liquid model and star football player to get the ladies, you just gotta be genuine. 

good luck
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Elemdee
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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

^the master has just spoken..

well anywyas.. the girl i like just logged on.. amd just said hey to me :D

so heres whats been happening, ive been playing this like a game, you need strategy, talk to her friends that helps alot, and they tell her etc.

dont act like your obsessed and dont act not interested anough, she'll think your not trying hard enough, or your trying to hard..

give her a hug everytime you see her and when you leave.. if you know she kindaf likes you

just talk to her alot, and dont let her say everything, like when im chilling with her im always nervous of saying the wrong thing, but the reason she likes you is how you acted before you knew. so think about that

dont ask her out to the movies.. i dont think that manly enough, ask her to go snowboarding, thats what i did.

and like dan said.. use cheesy lines, the girls dig that, its like.. amazing.. the greatest pickup lines in the world are the corny pickup lines..as well as saying stuff like.. if she asks you wutsup say your thinking of her or something like that :P

and for the asking out part.. this is a good one. say that you dont wanna be just another guy, and you want this one to last, etc.

good luck! (i need it too)


NinjaOG

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Yeah, i'm not good at talking to girls but a lot seem to like me. I usually just kind of chill since i never know what to say. And we kind of talk and look at each other.   

prospect

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

the "whats cookin good lookin" sounds good even though it is corny, it might work!

mestephanieme

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Posted by Dirty_Dan
Posted by Czech_Yourself
Women should write a book on how their minds work.

would you really read a book that long?


anyway. 

heres a few tips. 
always adress her by her name. people love hearing their name. it will make her feel like your attention is fully on her while you two are talking. 
compliment her. notice little things she does, like the way she wears her hair. complimenting her shoes is always a good idea, girls love shoes and they want people to notice them. 
make her laugh. if you can make her laugh the rest is easy. 
girls love to talk. so talk to her. find things that both of you have in common and talk about them. its not as hard as it seems. 
use corny lines like "whats cookin good lookin?" i always use that one. its a keeper.

when its time to ask her out. you dont have to make it a date. dates are harder then just simply hanging out. but dont ask her if she wants to hang out. make plans. like going out to eat. going to the movies. and ask her "hey ____, want to go to the movies friday" 

another suggestion, go with a group of friends. you will be less pressured to entertain her by yourself. and also, if you find its not going as well as you thought there will be other peoiple around so it isnt an awkward silence fest for the remainder of the date. im sure it will go great. after chilling with her a few times and you two know eachother pretty well, then you will be more comfortable with her and you can ask her out on a real date.

and finally, be confident in yourself. you are a great person. dont go changing. you dont need to be a liquid model and star football player to get the ladies, you just gotta be genuine. 

good luck


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insaneinthes...

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

There's always pick up lines

YOU: Did it hurt?

HER: Did what hurt?

YOU: When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?

Haha, that'd probably wouldn't work. Pick up lines rarely do. Here's some suggestions. You see the girl that captures your eye, and when the moment is right, you say something. I know that sounds almost too simple, but the whole point is to get her attention and leave a lasting impression(in a good way). Simply saying "Hi" is good. It really depends on the situation. Timing is everything. Being nice is essential. Humor can go a long way. A lot of girls like to laugh (those that don't are out there, believe me), and they like a guy who can make them smile.
    Definitely be yourself. Girls love a guy who has no problem being who he really is (unless they're a complete jerk, and in that case, they should change). An amazing fact that comes to my mind is that quite a few gorgeous girls feel very inadequate about their looks and who they are. Compliments are awesome, and everyone likes em. Looks aren't everything either. I see a lot of average looking guys with absolute fine ladies (fo sho), and that's because they make up for it in personality. Looks will fade, but your soul will not. Also, Be confident (but not egotistical), be witty (but not a walking comedian), be interested (but not a stalker), and sometimes dude, ya gotta just go for it. It takes guts, but anything that's worth something does.
  And then there's the date. Coffee at noon is always good, or lunch. Dan got it right when he said to go with a group of friends and just hang out. A "date" (with tux in tow) is waaay too serious at first. Remember, it just takes time. Relationships are like Rome: they're not gonna be built in a day. And above all:

Remember to put on some deoderant and brush your teeth.

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atomicsnowqueen
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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Posted by Dirty_Dan
Posted by Czech_Yourself
Women should write a book on how their minds work.

would you really read a book that long?


anyway. 

heres a few tips. 
always adress her by her name. people love hearing their name. it will make her feel like your attention is fully on her while you two are talking. 
compliment her. notice little things she does, like the way she wears her hair. complimenting her shoes is always a good idea, girls love shoes and they want people to notice them. 
make her laugh. if you can make her laugh the rest is easy. 
girls love to talk. so talk to her. find things that both of you have in common and talk about them. its not as hard as it seems. 
use corny lines like "whats cookin good lookin?" i always use that one. its a keeper.

when its time to ask her out. you dont have to make it a date. dates are harder then just simply hanging out. but dont ask her if she wants to hang out. make plans. like going out to eat. going to the movies. and ask her "hey ____, want to go to the movies friday" 

another suggestion, go with a group of friends. you will be less pressured to entertain her by yourself. and also, if you find its not going as well as you thought there will be other peoiple around so it isnt an awkward silence fest for the remainder of the date. im sure it will go great. after chilling with her a few times and you two know eachother pretty well, then you will be more comfortable with her and you can ask her out on a real date.

and finally, be confident in yourself. you are a great person. dont go changing. you dont need to be a liquid model and star football player to get the ladies, you just gotta be genuine. 

good luck


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wittyhippie

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

I think Dan should write the book on how girls minds work.  He knows a lot more than we do. hahaha.
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BrightEyes13
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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Pick up lines everyone?

My favorite (because i came up with it)- my friend over there thinks your hot. Wanna make him jealous?
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Hyde13

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Fuck pick up lines thats shits lame, you gotta play your surroundings, if your at a party pick out a girl, look at who she's hanging with and talking with. An apologetic interuption is always a good way to get yourself introduced. "Sorry I couldn't help but hearing.... blah blah blah... by the way my name is ___________" this should usually work. Then procced by making conversation over a common point of intrest not something totally random but something that is going on in the room, don't talk about the party it can be a akward way to end a conversation but talking about the party is exceptable later on. Say by chance theres something going on in the room make conversation over that and tell a story that relates to it and is funny or ironic. By this time or earlier on you will have picked up on any clues that she fucking hates your guts or she's not intrested. But that dosen't matter you weren't to into her anyways. As conversation and discussion continues let her creep her way towards you where your can then put your arm around her. As she gets closer rub her arm on the side opposite you with the arm you have around her back. If she looks at you and then behind you, she really wants you and you should make a move. I'm not gonna go any further then this you can take to where ever you feel comfotrable.
 
But thats how to pick a chick up at a House Party.
 
For asking girls out. Most people my age and at my school just kinda go, they hook up over the weekend and then go out a week or 2 later. I find its good to just hangout with the person and become friends with them befor you do anything you can become comftorable with each other and flirt alot later on after a couple hangouts, a great thing to do is go to a party, ask out for a coffe. Main thing is don't feel afraid most teenage girls will do almost anything put in the right position this can be bad and good. But confidence is key, don't be afraid to hold her hand infront of all your friends.
 
Heres a few tips I can give you to add onto some knowledge.
 
1. Girls seem to love it when you hold there hand.
2. Don't hit on more then 2 of one crowd of girls in one night it will get around and they'll thing oddly of you.
3. Don't make-out with 2 girls who are friend the same night.
4. Ex Girlfriends don't always wanna get back with you.
5. Hooking up with a chick can happen anywhere.
6. Confidence is a key things girls seem to look for.
7. Pick up lines are for creeps, sketchbags, and dirt balls.
8. If your going to use a pick up line all you should say is "Wanna Mak Out"
9. What Dan said compliment her they love that.
10. With the corny pick up lines, only few can pull it off but you must make it spontanious and  sound like your joking cause with some of the lines I've heard here your gonna need alot of look to actually pull one off.
11. Don't date everyone you hook up with.
12. Don't cheat.
 
Finally, we're still young we still have many chances with many different people. Girls our age will pretty much do anything but don't force them to do anything they seem like doubting. Another thing is we're only in our teens so basicly girls don't mean shit, don't obsess over juvenile break ups or relationship problems.

[Edited by Hyde13 on 12/18/2006 at 7:02 PM]
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Chelly

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Shit ladies. Dan figured us out! Quick, time for plan B!
 
But no seriously good for you, you know how to treat a lady. I will say this though to add to the thread:
 
ALL GIRLS ARE DIFFERENT.
 
Oh wait let me say it again with some fancy astricks.
 
*** ALL GIRLS ARE DIFFERENT ***
 
 
 
 
No but I'm being completely serious, there's of course the standards of obviously being nice to her and giving her your full attention (if I find a guy is looking me dead in the eye and I can tell he's completely listening to what I'm saying, I'll start forgetting what I was talking about and kind of just shut up. Moments like that amaze me! It's crazy how much a little attentiveness will get you). But otherwise dude just be yourself. If she ends up liking you in the long run the last thing you want is for her to fall in love with someone you aren't.

collisson

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Posted on Dec 18, 2006

Posted by atomicsnowqueen
Posted by Dirty_Dan
Posted by Czech_Yourself
Women should write a book on how their minds work.

would you really read a book that long?


anyway. 

heres a few tips. 
always adress her by her name. people love hearing their name. it will make her feel like your attention is fully on her while you two are talking. 
compliment her. notice little things she does, like the way she wears her hair. complimenting her shoes is always a good idea, girls love shoes and they want people to notice them. 
make her laugh. if you can make her laugh the rest is easy. 
girls love to talk. so talk to her. find things that both of you have in common and talk about them. its not as hard as it seems. 
use corny lines like "whats cookin good lookin?" i always use that one. its a keeper.

when its time to ask her out. you dont have to make it a date. dates are harder then just simply hanging out. but dont ask her if she wants to hang out. make plans. like going out to eat. going to the movies. and ask her "hey ____, want to go to the movies friday" 

another suggestion, go with a group of friends. you will be less pressured to entertain her by yourself. and also, if you find its not going as well as you thought there will be other peoiple around so it isnt an awkward silence fest for the remainder of the date. im sure it will go great. after chilling with her a few times and you two know eachother pretty well, then you will be more comfortable with her and you can ask her out on a real date.

and finally, be confident in yourself. you are a great person. dont go changing. you dont need to be a liquid model and star football player to get the ladies, you just gotta be genuine. 

good luck


Wow Dan, I want to be YOUR girlfriend!
 
 
Hahaha Ill second that.
 
But seriously, if Dan's advice is the only thing you ever learn from SB.com, you didnt do bad.

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