I went to a The Reason/Wintersleep/Yellowcard/Metric concert on thursday. It was great... but here's the thing:
I just moved back to London and my friends here are my uni friends, so most of us have drifted appart... as in i'm still beign immature and having fun and they are getting married. Not all, but most. So none of them wanted to come to a concert for a bunch of bands they didn't particularly know... not even when I mentioned there was a beer tent! *gasp*
So I went alone. I didn't think it was a big deal I wanted to see Metric dammit and not having anyone to go with wasn't going to stop me. If i always waited for someone to tag along, i wouldn't have done half the things I have in life. And i never had a problem with it until that night.
I walked up to the beer ticket guy to get some tickets. He looked around to see if I was with anyone, then looked at me and said 'ahhhhhhhhh you must be with the band' I said, does it get me free beer. He said no. So i said nope, why. He answered ' well, it's just... you know.. well.. are you here alone?' Um, yeah i said.. 'oh' was the uncomfortable reply. So I took my tickets, got my beer, and chugged one.
Why is it that as soon as you go out alone, people feel bad for you or assume you're some crazy freak or have no friends. Get over it!!! is it really so hard to imagine that a young lady can be independent enough to go to a concert alone! it's not like you can even hear anyone over the music to talk to them! I'm not sure why this bugged me so much... I have gotten used to sitting alone in restaurants, going to bars alone.. and that is much more intimidating than a concert. Maybe it's just cause I moved to Europe on my own, and had to get used to doing things alone, or I would have stayed inside all day and night.
okay.. end of rant.... just needed to vent! and yeah i know it's a few days after the fact, but I went for a walk and i was thinking about and it started to piss me off again!