conclusion time... older people like to give advice and tell you what is right i work at a nursing home and all of the elderly like to give me advice on everything the way i dress... that my close are loose (they are scrubs people they make three sizes my leg length is size small but my hips are size medium...)  there lates topic to discuss is my upcoming trip they have all decided that i am going to be murdered for god sakes people have been traveling for centuries and if people always got murdered no one would travel.  and it gets to me and l freak out and cry about it then i laugh and realize that it doesn't matter what they say they aren't that important that they have a say in my ife so i'm not going to listen to them and just let time sort this all out